I received an interesting phone call from someone today asking my advice on the best way to go about choosing an in-home caregiver for their parents.

You first need to determine the level of care that your parents need.If you need someone to help with light housekeeping,cooking meals,shopping or transportation needs I would suggest talking to friends and family as they may know someone who is in need of work.You can also put an ad in your local paper in the help wanted section.

If your parents require help with bathing,dressing,toileting or taking medication then you may want to consider a CNA (Certified Nurses Assistant) or a LPN,preferably someone who has experience with the elderly.

Whichever route you decide to take,make sure that you ask for references and you may want to consider having a background check done as well.Have all applicants meet with you and your parents so you can see how they interact with one another. It is important that both parties like each other and feel comfortable being around each other. While you may like someone and think that they may be perfect for the position, the reality is that it is your parent/s who have to deal with them on a daily basis. So make sure they get along well.

When you have decided on an applicant I would strongly recommend making surprise visits occasionally to ensure that both the home and your parents are being cared for properly.

Finally,speak to your parents and encourage them to voice any complaints or concerns they may have regarding their caregiver.You may have to hire several caregivers before you find the one who cares for your loved ones in the manner that you desire.Remember that they are YOUR parents and deserve to have the best care they possibly can.